He did not marry the maid

Last time I wrote an article on the extent at which people are abusing the bride price so that they can acquire wealth using their female children which later results in their children being abused in their marriages.

However most man that I talked to regret ever paying the bride price in the first place not because it was expensive.

They say this regret is due to the fact that their wives are not behaving in a manner which is expected of them once they get a maid.

This prompted me to write on this issue.

It is very normal for a woman to get a maid or a house keeper as is the case with many working women who are forced by their busy schedules to hire a maid to look after the house and the kids when the woman is at work.

Most husbands do not have a challenge with their wives hiring a maid.

Infact some suggest their wives look for maids so that the wife gets time to rest.

However it gets problematic when wives end up abusing this privilege.

Honestly ladies if you were a man, would you like it when your wife makes the maid to do everything

The maid made to wash everyone’s clothes and is also given dirty sheets to wash, socks and underwear. Men don’t like it if their undergarments are washed by someone other than their wives. If the maid can wash his socks, then what is the wife’s duty?

Most women who do this don’t go to work which makes one to wonder what they spend the whole day doing as they heavily neglect their wife duties for their maids.

Most of the man that I talked to regarding this subject showed dissatisfaction with the way their wives behave once they get a maid.

Some opened up and said they are having intimate relationships with the maids and how they wish they were single again because they can’t wait to marry their maids who are showing more dedication to them other than their lawfully married wives.

These days they do everthing

Honestly how can we women blame our husbands for having these intimate relationships with maids after exposing their underwear to the maid?

These days they do everthing 

60 percent of the men that interviewed said there is nothing they hate the most like their lazy wives who are even failing to clean  their bedrooms and make up the bed