16/02/2015

Never tolerate cheating as a man


A cheating woman should not be tolerated at all. You might have admitted that you do love her and promised that you will spend the rest of your life with her............but cheating is something that a man should not tolerate no matter the love that  he has for his wife. If a wife cheats you.....it means that you are not meant  to be....she is no longer your wife.....
As a man  you should stand firm and end the relationship because cheating is not  good for a marriage. The fact that she cheated should communicate to you that you are not the one for her.
Here are some of the mistakes that men make  when their wives show signs of cheating 
Mistake #1 BLAMING YOURSELF FOR HER AFFAIR. Many guys get so screwed up in their head when they learn that their wife is unfaithful... that they do something that just doesn't make sense.
They blame themselves.I personally believe - down to the marrow of my bones - that yes, you're responsible for your half of the relationship... and nobody's perfect... but you are zero percent responsible for her crossing that final line and cheating.That's her responsibility, not yours
The moment you start blaming yourself ,the more she will cheat you because you will be her scapegoat
Mistake #2: TALKING ABOUT THE AFFAIR IN THE WRONG WAY
Most guys dive right in and start bombarding their wife with questions about the
affair.She will not just stop until you address the root cause.The approach that you use when you first notice the signs of cheating will determine whether she will stop or whether the cheating  will persist .
Once she starts cheating....Its high time  you tell yourself that you did love her but...........everything has an end

 
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