Betrayed

Happy moments for Mhere

I was shocked when I read in the newspapers that Mathius Mhere’s wife of six years was cheating him with his best friend Gift.

I would have been less shocked if she was cheating with any other man other than her husband’s best friend. Yes cheating is bad and is something that should not be tolerated.

Imagine how it feels when you are cheated with your best friend that you have helped several times to launch and have a stable music career If she is meant to be promiscuous couldn’t she have found any other man?

I can’t imagine how it feels when a man is cheated by the two closest people that he has; a wife that he has spent almost a decade with and a friend that he has spent his entire life with.

It’s heartbreaking when it’s with a best friend because a best friend is someone that you normally share all your woes worries and sad moments with because they are more than a relative to you.

The other reason why it’s difficult for a man to forgive a cheating wife lies on children. As a man being cheated makes you to start wondering whether it was her first time to cheat, this results in a man losing love in his children he will be wondering whether the children that he has with his wife are his .biological children.

This is because not catching her cheating all these years does not prove that it’s her first time to do that, maybe she has been cheating several years and has never been caught before.