09/03/2015

Love potions 2


Like we said last week, love portions are still used by women in the Twenty First Century. Several men have fallen prey to these women who use love charms. Not only have these men married women that they never loved at all but they have also lost their dignity of being called family heads to being the subjects and house wives.
It is in their marriages, that their wives make all decisions and rule them, these men are battered and abused but their minds are no longer normal.
Love portions have blinded them.
Due to the complexity of the issue of love charms I decided to different people as a way of getting to know more.
Buthelezwe Moyo, who is a pastor at Brethren in Christ church, is of the view that the way love charms affect men is not different from how one is affected by a demon. According to him men who have been subjected to love charms are spiritually possessed and they need deliverance like any other demon possessed people.Butholezwe is of the view that women who use love portions on their husbands need to repent because they are trying to reverse what God initially started, that which states that a man is the head of the family.
traditional medicine
 However Alice Dube who is a prophetess at the Zion Apostolic church says love portions are only wrong when they come from traditional healers because they are made using unholy material. She said in their church they have restored a lot of marriages through using intethelelo/minamato.  According to her it is okay to use holy items so that people can get married.
‘There are a lot of ladies that we have assisted when their husbands were no longer interested in them. We give them water that they mix with their cooking water so that their husbands can come back to their senses. According to her, this cannot be referred to as love charms because they get instructions from God unlike what traditional healers do as they get their instructions from ancestors.’ she said
Nevertheles, nommater where they come from, love potions have the same impacts on men.
Impacts of love charms.
They dont call them love potions
According to Jackson Nhundu, women should stop using love potions as a way of trying to enhance the love that their husbands would be having for them. Jackson is of the view that love is natural and cannot be made to be artificial through the use of charms which most of the time is the contributing factor to most men who have gone crazy and are running in the streets the whole day. According to him, it is because of clove charms that some men are now at Ngutsheni while others have lost their lives as traditional healers always mistake love charms with medicine used for making some one go crazy.
When I asked Jackson whether he knows anyone who lost his life because of his wife who would have been trying to use love charms, he responded by saying he once had a uncle who was in a polygamous marriage and his wives were always fighting and battling for attention through frequent campaigns.For more on polygamyread more
When this failed, the wives resorted to seeking witch doctors advice .As a result his uncle had started by washing clothes at home and later on went mad because his mind could no longer think properly.
Video showing a  what a mad person does

It is imperative to note that true love is a natural mutual feeling which comes from within and does not need any charms so that it exists or blooms.
Men should not be burdened by us women because we want them to be what they are not. If you want someone different, don’t use love portions as a way of trying to make him what he is not.
Instead look for someone who is what you want….. thats true love .Below is a music video celebrating true love 
 



1 comment:

Vimbai Chinembiri said...

True MaNxumalo. Real love is not faked by portions. May we have the grace to love truly and uthentically.